Antonio Porchia, Voices (trans. W.S. Merwin) [transcript in ALT]
“Don’t judge yourself by what others did to you.”— C. Kennedy
“Always and never are two words you should always remember never to use.”— Wendell Johnson
“Everyone has his own specific vocation or mission in life to carry out a concrete assignment which demands fulfillment. Therein he cannot be replaced, nor can his life be repeated. Thus, everyone’s task is as unique as is his specific opportunity to implement it.“ ~ V. Frankl
“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.”—
New Zealand by Dean Johns
“I stopped being angry when I realized that nothing is ever about me. It is never about you. It is never personal. People cannot handle the internal battle with themselves, so they choose to fight others as a means of release for internal aggression.”
The school system continues to fail neurodiverse students
Neurodivergence in academic settings is highly misunderstood & under discussed. Below is a master list of information on the reality of being a neurodivergent student in an education system built for neurotypicals; as well as resources and tools to aid students with autism, adhd, dyslexia and more in higher education. Please share this post so it can reach, educate and assist and many people as possible.
**this will be continuously updated. if you have any additions please feel free to message me or send me an ask and i’ll add it to the list!
✰ EDUCATE YOURSELF
- NEURODIVERSITY: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
- VALUING DIFFERENCES: NEURODIVERSITY IN THE CLASSROOM
- ADHD EDUCATION CARRD
- AUTISM EDUCATION CARRD
- MYTHS AND MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT AUTISM
- DEALING WITH DYSLEXIA CARRD
- TONE INDICATORS CARRD
✰ HELPFUL READS/SELF HELP
- NEURODIVERSE SELF-CARE: MANAGING ANXIETY THROUGH CONNECTION
- NEURODIVERSITY WELLNESS: LINKS TO SOME GREAT COVID-19 RESOURCES
- PREPARING FOR COLLEGE WITH DYSLEXIA
- AT UNIVERSITY: THE ART OF SHARING INFORMATION ABOUT YOUR DISABILITY
- HACKING YOUR ADHD - where you can learn techniques for helping your adhd brain
- SURVIVING COLLEGE WITH ADHD
- GOING TO COLLEGE WITH AUTISM
- 5 TIPS FOR AUTISTIC STUDENTS STARTING UNIVERSITY OR COLLEGE
✰ TOOLS
- FOCUS@WILL: an ios & android app designed to increase your focus and attention, Focus@Will uses specially engineered audio in which frequencies similar to the human voice are removed. Why? We are wired to pay attention to them, and they distract us.
- FINISH: an app that lets you add tasks and divide them into “short term,” “mid term,” or “long term,” as defined by you.
- CLAROSPEAK: ClaroSpeak offers the option of visual highlighting in-sync with the spoken words, a great range of colour and font settings to allow for optimum reading and word prediction to help with writing.
- C PEN: The C-Pen Reader is a totally portable, pocket-sized device that reads text aloud with an English, Spanish or French human-like digital voice.
“So the myth in our society is that people are competitive by nature and that they are individualistic and that they’re selfish. The real reality is quite the opposite. We have certain human needs. The only way that you can talk about human nature concretely is by recognising that there are certain human needs. We have a human need for companionship and for close contact, to be loved, to be attached to, to be accepted, to be seen, to be received for who we are. If those needs are met, we develop into people who are compassionate and cooperative and who have empathy for other people. So… the opposite, that we often see in our society, is in fact, a distortion of human nature precisely because so few people have their needs met.”— Gabor Maté